What is the difference between hard working and workaholic? . People who is hard working is kind of love their jobs, but they still know how to organized their times to enjoylives. In another hand, workaholic is the person who is addicted to work and think work is the most important thing in their lives. Of course hard working is a good element for people to become successful, butbeing a workaholic can make their lives even worse. The result of being a workaholic which include break up family’s relationships, health decreased and has no interested in life.
To explain the results of being a workaholic, my father is the person who is hard working, but not a workaholic. My father is an event manager, so his job requires him to work from 7 am to 6 pm at a company everyday. I know he is very busy with ton of plans, but he never stays at the company to work at night. I asked him how about if he could not finish the work.
He just answered me he tried to do as best as he can and go home with me on time, so I know how important of family to him. In fact, I have one friend, Ann, whose father is a workaholic who is always stays at company to work through night. I can see a big hole between her family.
After school, Ann usually walks to home, eats with her mother and does a home works. It is not surprised to me when she said she have not seen her father for two weeks.
Consequently, she feels very awkward when she talks with her father, so she just talks with her father when necessary. Also with her mother, they are not really talk with each other. So that, being a workaholic means people just focus on their works and don’t care anymore about their families. It makes they live separately with each other and lets them live far apart from their families day by day.
In another case, being a workaholic can let your health decreased. A normal person usually need only 8 hours to work or more if their company requires. After work, he/she can get home, does an exercise near his/her park. In the weekend, he/she sometimes has plans to enjoy live. For that reason, he/she feels very comfortable with his/her job. The live is balanced between working and enjoyment. But, for the workaholics, they feel working is never enough for them. May be in some companies, people have to work extra hours to keep their jobs. Therefore, workaholics usually work with stressful or an anxiety is increased. They don’t have enough time to care for their health.
For example, they cannot make an appointment with doctor because they even don’t have enough time to work Together with they drink coffee to concentrate in work, eat fast food instead of fresh meals. Asebedo says. “We found workaholics-defined by those working more than 50 hours per week-were more likely to have reduced physical well-being, measured by skipped meals. Also, we found that workaholism was associated with reduced mental well-being as measured by a self-reported depression score.” (Newwise 19-26).As a result, we can see how much fatigue they have to suffer everyday and realize that being a workaholic will let him/her health decreased.
In effect, workaholics have no interested in their lives beside working. They don’t have a vacation in the summer; they cannot celebrate a holiday or enjoy special days with their families. When we ask a normal person about his/her hobbies, we usually get: cooking, traveling, and watchingTV,… for the answers. Conversely with workaholics, they just say: “Working”. They don’t know what they should do to spend time beside of working. “It used to be that I never went on vacation without my laptop and a couple of beepers,” says George Giokas, who describes himself as a “reformed” workaholic. We can see even in the vacation, their mind still think about work and cannot enjoy anything. It is not life. They need to do something else to enjoy not just only working for the whole life.
As shown above, there are the results of being a workaholic, but we can see no one is good. I think workaholics should limit the amount of time they should spend to work, balance between work and family. They should spend more time to enjoy a vacation with families in a holidays instead of sitting on the chair to working. It not only help them have a happy life but also can help them live longer.